1. Define What Matters Most to You

Before informing your guests, be clear about what you truly need or desire:

• Money: Useful for covering wedding expenses, the honeymoon, or a joint project.

• Wedding registry: Select specific items for your home or experiences you will enjoy as a couple.

• Combination: Some couples choose to offer both material gifts and monetary contributions, always in an elegant and clear manner.

The first step is internal consistency: both partners should agree on the type of gifts they wish to receive.

2. Gift Ideas You Can Request as a Couple

To inspire you, here are suggestions that combine practicality and style, suitable for any type of wedding:

• Experiences: Gourmet dinners, excursions, weekend getaways, adventure activities, or tickets to shows.

• For the home: Dinnerware, glassware, quality kitchen utensils, appliances, textiles (sheets, towels, blankets).

• Decoration: Paintings, lamps, vases, or design pieces that reflect your style.

• Honeymoon: Contributions for flights, accommodation, dinners, or activities during the trip.

• Technology: Devices such as smart speakers, sound systems, tablets, or home assistants.

• Funds for future projects: Savings for a house, education, vehicles, or joint investments.

The goal is to offer a variety of useful options, so guests can choose according to their budget and preferences.

3. Communicate with Subtlety

The key is to avoid direct or demanding phrases. Some ideas:

• Include a link to the wedding registry on your wedding website.

• Add a small card or note in the invitations saying: “If you wish to give us a gift, we have prepared a list of suggestions.”

• For money, you can use an elegant and general phrase, such as: “Your presence is the greatest gift; if you would like to give us a little something, you may contribute to our honeymoon/home project.”

The goal is to inform without pressuring, maintaining a cordial and grateful tone.

4. Make Gift Delivery Easy

• If you choose physical gifts, ensure there is an organized space to receive them during the wedding.

• If you opt for money, consider modern and secure methods, such as bank transfers, online contribution platforms, or discreet envelopes in a visible location. This avoids confusion and makes logistics easier for everyone.

5. Always Express Gratitude

A gesture of thanks makes all the difference. Regardless of the type of gift, send personalized thank-you notes after the wedding. This is not only a courtesy but also reinforces your relationship with your guests and leaves a positive memory.

6. Practical Tips from Daniela Henao Weddings

At Daniela Henao Weddings, we help couples plan gift communication in an elegant and cohesive way, consistent with the event’s aesthetic. This includes:

• Suggestions for writing invitations or cards subtly.

• Organizing the gift reception area.

• Recommendations for digital platforms to receive monetary contributions safely and conveniently.

Our goal is to make gifts an added detail of the celebration, without creating tension or misunderstandings.