1. What kind of experience do you want to have?

Before looking at the calendar, ask yourself this question: how do you dream your wedding?
An outdoor sunset party? An intimate ceremony in a cozy setting? A grand celebration with all your loved ones in summer?

First, choose the type of experience you want, and then look for dates that fit that style. For example:

• If you envision a wedding with golden light, prioritize months with more daylight hours.

• If you’re excited about a green, natural setting, perhaps May or early autumn are perfect.

• If your priority is that all your guests can attend, consider long weekends or school holidays.

The important thing is that the date complements the atmosphere you want to create.

2. Take the weather into account

Weather will always be a variable, even in destinations with a stable climate. However, it’s important to know if the area where you’re getting married has higher chances of rain or extreme heat during certain months.

For example, in the Canary Islands, you can get married almost any time of year, but some months have more wind or higher tourist traffic. In other destinations, it may be wise to avoid stormy seasons or extreme heat.

That said, there are always solutions: if you plan to marry during a less stable season, include a covered option or a quality tent from the start. The key isn’t to avoid the weather, but to anticipate it.

3. Dates with Meaning (But With Flexibility)

Some couples are excited to get married on the anniversary of when they met, on a special family date, or on a “pretty” date (like 24/04/24). And that can be truly beautiful.

But remember, if you prioritize a specific date too much, you may greatly limit your options for venues or vendors. If that day is already booked, consider moving it one or two days earlier or later. The significance of the date will still remain.

4. And the Budget?

Peak season is usually more expensive, both because of higher demand and the additional services required. Getting married on a Saturday in June doesn’t cost the same as a Friday in November.

If you have a tight budget, consider less popular dates: Fridays, Sundays, or months between October and March. Many venues and vendors offer better rates, allowing you to invest more in other important details for your wedding.

5. Availability of Your Key Guests

Do you have family coming from abroad? Friends who need to request time off in advance? Think about them ahead of time. Choosing a date that allows your important guests to plan accordingly is a thoughtful gesture that everyone appreciates.

Tip: The earlier they know the date, the sooner they can book flights, organize accommodation, and plan their attendance without complications.

There isn’t a universal “perfect date,” but there is a perfect date for you. It’s the one that fits your vision, your lifestyle, and the experience you want to create.

The best advice: choose calmly, with a realistic perspective, and don’t let yourself be swayed solely by trends or external pressures. Your wedding isn’t just another event on the calendar—it’s a day you’ll remember forever. Make it meaningful for you, from the very start.